tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4932094340622705390.post8440180914877503271..comments2024-03-28T07:53:52.754-07:00Comments on life collection: patternsGarden Girlhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07354707840226473223noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4932094340622705390.post-71029035167779170372016-05-03T07:00:21.280-07:002016-05-03T07:00:21.280-07:00I do understand. When J started traveling full ti...I do understand. When J started traveling full time for work, I too had a freak out moment when I realized my stress levels and depression dropped off dramatically. It wasn't that J caused any stress. It was that I put extra stress on myself when he was around- to be the perfect wife and homemaker and cook. I am not perfect, I can't be, no one is. And J isn't looking for perfection, he's wanting happiness for me. When he is gone, it is easier for me to step back from that role and "see" the real me. It doesn't mean I don't want to be married to him, I love him passionately. It just means that I need to spend more time discovering who I really am deep down inside.Stumbling Through Lifehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03949244722551010352noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4932094340622705390.post-56423296764775974692016-05-02T07:10:23.387-07:002016-05-02T07:10:23.387-07:00YES!!! Being unapologetically yourself is a great ...YES!!! Being unapologetically yourself is a great and cathartic thing :) Optimistic Existentialisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11507986337866049924noreply@blogger.com